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      <image:caption>If all you need is 10,000 hours to become an expert, how many hours do you need to masturbate to become a masturbation coach? This is a wild &amp; rollicking conversation that may not be your cup of tea, but it gives you an idea of my thoughts on self pleasure. For all of you who, like my former self, refuse to believe you are worthy of pleasure, don’t masturbate often or well, return to the same old and boring habits, loathe your body, or don’t allow yourselves to feel - these interviews and all I do are for you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Reunite your body, mind and soul to be your best sexual self. Choose from 60 to 90 minute sessions, in person or online. I also create custom mini-retreats and workshops for out-of-towners who want to maximize in-person coaching during a visit. How to get started? 1. Fill out this mandatory intake form: https://bit.ly/3zU9Tpd 2. Then, schedule a session using the Reach Out button below. Or, shoot me an email with questions and we’ll go from there: Amy@JoyfulSelfLove.com.</image:caption>
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