One on One Coaching: in-person, by phone or video
I LOVE one-on-one work and offer private sex coaching and a compassionate, body-based approach to sexual health and wellness. Embrace yourself and have the sex life you deserve! These private sessions are booked in 60 or 90 minute increments, and can happen in-person, by phone or via video (Zoom, Skype, FaceTime). LGBTQIA, Vanilla, Kink & Poly aware and friendly - oh, and don't worry if you don't know what any of that means! :)
A Safe Place
Exactly what we do depends in large part on your intentions, but always I work to empower your voice & choice. Above all, my goal is for you to feel safe and supported. Any work we do together is private and tailored for your specific needs & goals.
Sessions may include:
Mindfulness - to stay embodied
Movement - to follow the tendrils of your pleasure
Breath Work - to increase or decrease sexual excitement
Sound - to activate the vagus nerve and feel-good chemicals
Touch - to educate & upon request. *Any touch is one-way only, meaning I may touch you but you may not touch me.
Why Work With Amy?
Sexual pleasure is increased and pleasure limitations decreased when we actively practice awakening, deepening & nourishing our sexual selves. I focus on experiential, educational learning.
Gain Sexual Confidence - be more present & connected in your body
Release Trauma - safely, my practice is trauma-informed & gentle
Overcome Sexual "Dysfunction" - erectile dysfunction, low or mismatched libido, unfulfilling orgasms, poor body image, frozen or disassociated from your body, genital or other pain, pelvic floor health, issues related to sexuality & aging
Ditch Shame & Guilt - know & freely express your needs
Ask For & Get What YOU Want - discover & name your authentic sexual desires; gender, relationship and/or kink exploration
Have The Sex Life You Deserve - more fulfilling, embodied, even spiritual encounters
Make An Appointment Today
With offices in Portland, OR, and the Columbia River Gorge, and video clients around the world, it's easy to schedule a session or free 15 min consultation, or simply ask a question in a judgment free, sex-positive space.
Say Hello, Ask a Question
Wondering if I can help or if we’d work well together? It’s easy to say hello, ask a question or two, and get to know me before scheduling a session.
Schedule a Session
Reunite your body, mind and soul to be your best sexual self. Choose from 60 to 90 minute sessions, in person or via video. I also create custom mini-retreats and workshops for out-of-towners who want to maximize in-person coaching during a visit. Reach out to receive my mandatory intake form so we can get started!
At this point, I do not take insurance. I charge $110/hour, $160/90 minutes. I also offer a bucket of hours that provides a 20% discount, so $350 for 4 hours and $510 for 4 ninety minute sessions. Sessions can be purchased here. Most clients see me 4-10 times, although that obviously varies. But in general, my goal is to provide you with the tools you need to be independent and successful.
What's the Difference between a Sex Therapist & Sex Coach?
I often work in conjunction with Sex Therapists. What's the difference between a Somatic Sex Educator and Coach (that's me!) and a therapist? Therapists employ talk therapy and are typically members of a national psychotherapy organization. As a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Coach, the story isn't as important to me as what's being held in the body. I work in the present - what are you feeling right now?! and employ tools like breath work, mindfulness, sound, movement & touch to help clients safely feel in their bodies.
Common issues I work with people of all genders, race, size, and orientation on include:
Accessing orgasm, figuring out what you really want
Claiming or reclaiming your sexual self - exploring your orgasm, fantasy, sensuality
Erectile issues - premature ejaculation and problems getting or staying hard
Feeling frozen or disassociated from your body
Body image issues - how to heal from this trauma and embrace yourself
Exploring different relationship styles, this could mean opening or closing a relationship. Avoiding poly drama. Negotiating and getting what you really want.
Questions around gender identity and sexuality, including transgender
Healing from trauma - you've processed and talked and understand what happened, but now you need to release long-held trauma from your body.
Low arousal or mismatched arousal in relationship
Going deeper in your relationship, sexually and emotionally
Erotic skill acquisition - how to drive your partner crazy
Anal health and enjoyment
Pelvic floor health
I look forward to the possibility of helping you reach your full erotic potential in a private, safe and non-judgmental space!
* Service disclaimer: Massage therapy is a professional occupation regulated by state licensure (OMB). I do not provide massage, nor any preventative, restorative, or therapeutic treatments of any kind. If you have an injury or medical concern, please consult your doctor or seek out a licensed massage therapist.